Hi Jennie

Keen was so right about the whole "relax and it'll happen" stuff .....in fact when people say that to me I get very very annoyed. Everyone is so different when it comes to why TTC is difficult. You need to not "beat yourself up" about TTC - give yourself time to assess the wonders of yourself. You need strength, determination and a support group (especially from DP) to get through TTC sometimes. You will know when you are ready for more ART.

Remember there are so many variables (endometrium lining thickness, numerous hormones levels, good embies etc etc) that need to be right for a healthy baby to come to life. Some things come easier to some than others.