My ex and I were told we had unexplained fertility after all the testing was completed (including the lap). I had one pregnancy in 8.5 years of trying. This occurred after 3 years and it was 3 months after coming off clomid. Sadly it ended in an early m/c. I never went on to assisted conception and as it turns out I'm glad I didn't as we are no longer together.

I now have a new partner and things are looking far more hopeful. This time it took only 9 months to get pg but it still ended in m/c. It's looking like I could be more fertile in my 40's than I was in my late twenties & early thirties.... I just need to get a sticky baby next time.

Long term ttc can be a really hard journey to go on but I think it will be made much easier by using the BB forums. There's always someone here to give you some much needed advice. Although most people seem to get answers on their infertility some times you just never get an answer. I hope you get some good news soon.