Hi - just thought i'd send you a bit of a note Cheryl.
Try to be really flexible with the whole 'dates' thing. I ended up 9 days past what was first envisaged. AF refused to show, and then we took another couple of days to get the follies big enough. I'm not saying you will have these problems - i just wanted to let you know that it's a real moveable feast!
If you haven't discussed blasties, then you are most likely doing a day 2 transfer, in which case your ET will be two days after your OPU.
Good Luck - i hope you start to feel a little better soon.