OMG me too, I am feeling homesick and wanna go home for a visit but cant plan it as I might need IVF treatment!!! I guess we have to look at what is most important to us and do what ever our heart desires. It is evry hard when you are looking at changing jobs though as you could fall striaght away and only give that employer 8 months. I cahnged jobs but told my employer I wanted to start a family he was great about it and so far I have been here 15 months with no baby in sight!! so he has got more time outta me than I planned! But you are having treatment now so i am sure it wont be long for you. Hang in there chicky.