I know what you mean Jo. I try not to read the pg announcement ones much as I read one recently that said I don't know how I am, he just looked at me. With 9.5 years TTC (only 1 year with DF) and my age going against me reading that is kind of hard to take.... not her fault of course, some ladies are just very fertile and don't realise how hard it is for others and how upsetting a comment like that can be to us.