thanks for all your wonderful thoughts. You are all such a gorgeous bunch of people. Well we have looked at some websites and we know that we wat a baby and we want to be pregnant together. Now if that means not having DP sperm than we will consider donor or whatever it takes. I ust feel so sad for DP that he was ripped off. He is such a caring guy who wants nothing more thn a big family to love and spoil. He had a brother that died of a brain heammorage and sister that died 3 years ago of CF so he wants a big family with lots of kids around.. We will go through anything. Because we are young though our ob is fairly laid back and not in a rush which is hard. But we will keep our chins up and cherish the child we have now xoxoxoxox