I went off the pill on my wedding day 9 1/2 years ago. TTC for about 2 years then went to a Gyno, was told to go away and lose weight ( Im a bigger girl) and thats what my problem was. So as well as TTC i was franticly trying to lose weight, tried for another couple of years, went to a new Gyno after she butchered me doing investigating surgery, she told me the same thing, just go away and lose weight. Tried for a couple more years (no real success with the weight thing either !!) and was finally referred to a REAL Dr who knew what she was talking about and diagnosed me with PCOS over the phone before i even got there. I tried clomid for about 6 months, then IUI 3 times and now i am 14 1/2 weeks pregnant on our first ICSI cycle. Like you Toy Tester i wish we had gone straight to the IVF years ago !!!!!!!!!!!! Even thought it has taken me all these years ( glad i started trying young !! Im 31 now) i feel sooooooo lucky that IVF has worked for us first go.

Goodluck to those who are trying ATM, believe me MIRACLES DO happen

Cheers
Char