Thanks for the sound advice and kind words of comfort Deb they mean the world to me today

I will do just as you advise - my GP has refd me to a Gyno that works out of the Angliss that he seems to think very highly of so i will call him on Monday for an appt after my ultrasound next fri and i will take it from there. GP very good and was basically passing on what US dr had said but i think he has faith in me and knows I will keep plugging away after all it is my body and I might be at a bit of a disadvantage cos of my age but you are right it certainly has not stopped other ladies having a bub- you never know.

xx have a great day