Anney - I should clarify that DH isn't fixable in that he has varicoceles which affect his sperm count, motility and he also has high abnormalities. He has had the embolisation procedure done to see if this helps improve things for him but so far we have not seen an improvement (ie still not pg), but will know for sure in a few weeks when he has a repeat SA. If his results don't improve our best chance is IVF/ICSI.

Anney and Leis - yes that cow of a women did nothing for my self confidence. I am big in that I am quite tall and solid but haven't been called fat since I was in grade 3 and according to healthy weight tables am 8 kilos overweight so hardly fat and if I was she should have chosen a better way of letting me know she thought I could lose a few kilos