Hi Tanya,
Welcome. No you are not alone. Very much part of a big group of people in a similar situation.
I'm not sure where you are but i'll let you know what our costs were anyway.
My lap was done in a private hospital without private insurance.
All up mine cost just over $2,000. This includes $640 for the anaesthetist, which medicare gave me $280 back on. Medicare covered nothing else. Most of the cost was from Freemasons - my FS (surgeon) didn't cost that much. Maybe i was just lucky.

Good luck with your lap, and your TTC.