BG
i am sorry you have had to wait for appoitments for your IVF
in the 6 years i have been doing IVF- i have never had to wait- even at the satellite clinic. I have also never had a cycle delayed or held back due to them being too busy. When it suits me, i have got in- with no hassles
I guess it comes down to how well the clinic is run and its efficiency. BTW i got through MIVF.

also i have noticed since i did my first IVF cycle in 2002, how much things have changed and the protocol has been tweeked as they have had different success rates with different protocols . The more women they have had through- the better they have got at the procedure.

Also, we have no medical reason why we couldnt conceive naturally. It just hadnt happened for 2 years before we did IVF. I ovulate every month, DH sperm is great- just never happened. So does that mean that i would have been called fertile???? and perhaps not given a place under this definition.

As its turned out as you guys know- we now have conceived naturally as well. But that took 8 years to happen on its own. So what happens now if we want to go back and have more children down the track. Are we fertile or infertile????

That's my point! Who gets to decide who should do IVF and who shouldnt!

odette
btw i love heathy debates!!!!!