I didn't vote because "insulting" isn't quite in my equation.

Having accidentally conceived my little lady, and having to only a small extent on here been given the privilege of sharing AC journeys with other women, i cannot FATHOM why anyone who didn't have to have IVF would do so for "convenience". Compared to unprotected sex it is the most inconvenient way i can THINK of to get a baby. Also IVF offers no guarantees. Lots of women have twin pregnancies and lose one baby early on. In addition twin pregnancies are actually relatively dangerous for all concerned (which is why most FS' won't even put 2 embies back).

So i'm not insulted by the idea. I'm concerned that those whose only shot at conception is through AC will be queue-jumped by those who don't actually need treatment to get PG, and i'm confused that anyone would volunteer for this path without a real need for it (be it social or physical - i CAN see why a single woman would rather not have random sex to get PG!), but i guess when humans stop baffling me it'll be my time to die!

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