DH and i went out last night and i drove, he drank, so in addition to the suggestions above, I'm thinking of crafting something along the lines that 'my dh is currently feeling hard done by/questioning his masculinity/is in training for the transatlantic stuby drinking competition, so I'm sacrificing my drinking enjoyment to boost his moral/chances of success'. I think it would stun most people into silence, but if dh overhead, it may just give him one to many ideas!

Most of the people we go out with know we are TTC, but I guess i dont want them to expect we are pg, and then have them question what has happened if we get a BFN and I go back to enjoying a drink/cheese etc (even just a little bit). I just dont know if I will handle their questions well.