thread: Feeling left behind in the TTC 'race'

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Nov 2008
    in the ning nang nong
    12,163

    mega hugs, duckie.

    I know what you mean just from my own position - let alone facing another possible IVF process.

    But I understand that irrational **arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!** feeling, and will vent alongside you ...

    What you're feeling is completely valid, and does not make you a bad friend or a bad person. It's incredibly selfless that you're putting your friend's feelings first, by saying all the right things when it hurts.

    Hopefully she'll be able to see how good a friend you are, and that she'll cool it off a bit, and support you in just the right way, too

  2. #2
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Mar 2008
    Vic
    4,806

    And this is what makes you an incredible person and an amazing friend.

    Big Shout from the rooftops if you want. It's unfair. Totally unfair. We wish it was different for you guys. You're incredible parents.