Oh Sarah, huge hugs darling I have your DH's twin here My OH never initiates conversations about TTC, it's always me. Wen we start new IVF cycles he just disappears emotionally and he doesn't give me support. He recently told me that he's always scared something will go wrong (his ex wife had a m/c at 17 weeks and we've lost our son at 21 weeks) so I guess I can understand his fears. But I wish he could be more supportive and at least show SOME excitement in our TTC journey. I always thought that maybe he didn't show much excitement when we first got pg and then again later, because he's already got 3 kids from a previous r'ship, but he told me he was like this with all his kids, he was always scared to begin with but fell in love with the kids once they were born, and he's right, he is a really hands on dad with our DS. I hope your DH shows you more support hun, you deserve it. And I hope with everything you've been through, you'll get your bubba very soon xxx
I have your DH's twin here
My OH never initiates conversations about TTC, it's always me. Wen we start new IVF cycles he just disappears emotionally and he doesn't give me support. He recently told me that he's always scared something will go wrong (his ex wife had a m/c at 17 weeks and we've lost our son at 21 weeks) so I guess I can understand his fears. But I wish he could be more supportive and at least show SOME excitement in our TTC journey. I always thought that maybe he didn't show much excitement when we first got pg and then again later, because he's already got 3 kids from a previous r'ship, but he told me he was like this with all his kids, he was always scared to begin with but fell in love with the kids once they were born, and he's right, he is a really hands on dad with our DS. I hope your DH shows you more support hun, you deserve it. And I hope with everything you've been through, you'll get your bubba very soon xxx
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