It really is very sad that people out there just make asumptions on our behalf. I did not wait because of career etc its just that life happened that way. It would be lovely if we had a plan for life but for some its just not that simple. What if one does not find there life partner till late 30's? What if other issue get in the way such as family illness etc - does that mean we meant to put ourselves in this position. No one in there right mind would put themselves in the IVF basket unless absolutely necessary and if for some woman they did choose a career first to get set up well in my opinion that is there right and no one has the right to tell them they are wrong do they? We all have different paths in life and if some of us got to the baby issue a little later than others does that mean we should be judged by this, what if a woman was married and then finds herself divorced in her early to mid 30's then what? I really hate being judged by anyone when it comes to choices in life and how we got to be older and then on IVF. It makes me fume at such judgemental people. I am actually surprised it got in the magazine i thought our world out there was more intelligent than that.