hi mon, take care hun, listen to these wise women ( to you wise women). listening to experience is the key as you can avoid the worst of OHSS by being really careful. i understand how sad it is to cancel but your short and long term health and fertility may be best served cancelling if it comes to that (and i really hope it doesn't). remember those OHSS stories in the book "making babies" - you don't want that hun.
sending you loads of hugs and love and i will be in to check up on you (i didn't end up going to blue mnts with DH - another story). xx