Thanks girls. That's what i keep coming back to - I do have another endometrioma, I saw it for myself and although it is only very small, I want it out before it causes all the problems my last one did.

It wasn't that I was not happy with my gynae as such, it's just that he has put me on clomid and after two months of monitoring has said "see you in 3 months". I just suspected that something else might be going on so thought it best to seek out another opinion. I am now really annoyed and questioning why he didn't do a follow up u/sound when I went back to him and said I was having problems. It was the first thing my new FS did and now I'm glad he did.

As you said Jane, I think he was a more of the blase type, "let's just see how things go". I'm sick of waiting. I was told the FS I am seeing is very proactive which is what I wanted.

I know deep down that I am just scared and just don't want to do the lap, even though I know it's a good idea. My last lap ended up being a 4 hour surgery and the recovery was painful and slow. I am hoping things won't be as complicated this time and I won't be in as much pain afterwards. That shoulder tip pain is enough to reduce me to tears now!!

I just have to hope that he can get me in quickly so it's all over and done with. Last time I had a 6 month wait (due mainly to a prg) and that was torture.