Hi Helen

firstly welcome to belly belly.. the forum is great and you will get HEAPS of support. My DH had said from day 1, even before we were married and starting ttc and knew i had problems (PCOS) that he would never ever consider IVF... (it was almost like he knew)... well 4 years since we married we are now in the 2 week wait.. after our first IVF cycle...

I think once he realised that it was the only way we were going to get a child he quickly changed his mind. He is all for IVF and says he would recommend it to anyone who's only chance it is to have a baby.

He had no qualms about producing a sperm sample, his only gripe was that it cost him $127 and it was the most expensive w*nk ever!!!! (his sample turned out fine)

I think really it can depend on the individual also.. my husband is accepting to change and happy to hear details before making decisions.. (ie hearing our infertility specialist out) looking back now i think my husband thought IVF would give us a high risk of a down syndrome child.. the way men think.. sometimes it is best not to even go there!!!

All the best and please come and join us on the forum..

Love leis x