I want to scream! *vent*

[Loveinamist]

I hate that line 'well maybe it isn't meant to happen yet'! Everyone I know who has become pregnant in the last three years has done so at the worst possible time into the worst possible situation. So how does that fit in with that little theory. Obviously they managed it when it wasn't supposed to happen in the whole scheme ofthis 'perfect world scenario'!! Eg friend whose husband left her the day before she gave birth, another who was pregnant while her husband became quite sick and had to take tons of time off work and so on. Then of course there are my favourites. The homeless drug addicts that you see giving birth to their third or whatever child on those maternity hospital TV shows on Discovery Health. Now how can anyone say that the time was just right for them to conceive over any couple experiencing fertility problems. I mean there is a big difference between a couple 'being stressed and not relaxing' or not having a three bedroom house yet or whatever and the woman who passes on a crack addiction to her newborn, has no money for food, will need to prostitute herself to get drugs and describes how she washes her babies in the public toilet sink! I am not saying that these people are not wonderful parents or do not have the potential to be wonderful parents it just seems to blow the whole 'a baby will come when the time is right' theory because alot of times babies do come when the situation they are being born into isn't perfect!!! Aghhhh vent hijack! Sorry!

Oh well good luck with your investigations!