Poppy your response to 'it will happen when it suppose to' is so right. I guess people are just trying to be optimistic. But there are many times when people's optimisum just makes you feel worse and more like a failure!!

I had one person say it to me time and again even after I told her it upset me. I just don't think she could understand - she was just one of those lucky people who go off the pill and fall pregnant the first time.

Anyway fingers crossed for everybody