Nikki, these days the success rates with IVF are very good, even with the transfer of frozen embryos. My FS told me that the success rates with thawing out the embryo are somewhere around 60%. I have one frozen bub on ice and hopefully my transfer will take place in early June.
I am a living example IVF can work first time. I had 12 eggs collected, 11 fertilized and 7 became embryos. Because I'm older, the FS reccommended a 5 day old balstocyst transfer. I had one fresh transfer which became a BFP and the other one is on ice. So you really just need one hun!!! I was hoping for a couple more frozen bubs, but I know I am very lucky that I ended up with 2 blasties, and later found out that that's an average number anyway. I pray that you'll have your miracle very soon
B xxxx