Jules,
Good luck with it all. It took my DH and I over 6 months to decide to go down the IVF path following our first appointment with the fertility dr and confirming that IVF was our only way to get pg. before that point it took us at least 6 months to even get to the fert dr after finding out that we were not going to get pg naturally. so it is a long process. dont rush and dont let anyone make you feel like you need to rush.
good luck