Thanks Suz

Isn't it amazing how the stress of a negative result just consumes you. For me certainly last time (not this time) I actually questioned my existence. I mean my friend got pregnant first time whilst on the pill, and this time with an IUD fitted!! I mean for God's sake. And she smoked all the way through her first pregnancy. It's just crushing isn't it. I don't now how you handled it but I'm the kind of person who after the initially grief, I try to fly into action. I want to find out lots of info and get on with the next stage, but certainly in the UK, you have to wait for a number of normal cycles to pass before you can have another go. That's the hardest bit for me.

I don't feel able to comment on your situation as I have not been through it. I hate it when people say, "I know how you feel", when they can't possibly, so I won't insult you. Can I just say you are in my thoughts and I being a believer in the miracle pregnancy wish the best for you.

Thanks so much for all your advise