Sush,

look after yourself though, won't you chook! The percentages being what they are, suggest that there is a bigger chance that assisted reproduction won't work more than it does. Do allow yourself to grieve the experience. If anything, grieve for the wasted months, wasted tests, wasted time waiting in docs waiting rooms (!), wasted money...I could go on. But also for the lost opportunity for a bubby.

I'm all for pushing on with it ('cause I do), but don't let it all snowball before you really address it in your own mind and own relationship.

But, we're all in this together, and I'm sure can all lean on each other!!

Love Hayseed