I think you hit the nail on the head, KeenAs. I think talking to my Dr, the clinic and work (about some time off) made me feel more in control of the whole thing. These were things I could help, unlike just about everything else to do with IVF.

Hayseed, you're right. I do need to give myself space to grieve. DH always says that he knows when I'm upset, I start re-arranging things. I guess it's my way. I've a day off today so my sister and I are going to shop, talk and probably cry for a while. She's coming with me for my Day 2 appointment at the clinic.

KeenAs, do you know when you start?

Love
sushee