Hi Emma, I can totally understand your dilimma atm and its so hard to decide isn't it? I guess ultimately its what you feel comfortable with...just one thing I want to point it out although I am no way expert on this, I think there is still risk of ectopic when doing IVF. I asked my FS about this sometime ago and thought its completelysafe with IVF, suppose they'd put it in the right place right, but they explain that embyo can move around after TF and it is still a risk IVF carries but I guess would be a lot lower than natural but I am not sure. Hope others might be able to give you a clear answer. Good luck hun on whatever you decide...
Thanks cuddlepie...yes there is that risk of an ectopic...in fact DHs cousin had that happen after an ivf cycle...but the way it was put to me, it is a MUCH lower risk than for us trying naturally.
IVF is looking like the favoured option at the moment. DH and I are going to talk about it tonight
sounds like you've got a plan already. you know whats best. i too am impatient but i physically just exhausted myself without a break. also we are trying to get a buiding app done and new home loan and i figured stress would not help with IVF at the same time.
it's so hard but in the end i suppose the reason you are doing this is because you didn't fall preg naturally in the first place.
but then we have a friend who they tried for 3 years. had a mc then took 1 year to fall pg again and now 16 weeks pg. so who knows.
big hugs that whatever you choose you get your forever baby soon xxooxx
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