N2L, oh no! Do you need to be a certain dpo or just as long as it's after O (ie even 1dpo is okay)? I haven't had that biopsy done, so I'm not familiar with the requirements. FX you get a beautiful +OPK in the next 24 hours! Is there any sign it might be near? Any CM? I hate to say, but I've been worrying the opposite, that I'll O too early this cycle. My lap should be around 12dpo if I O at my usual time, but it will end up being during AF if I O even a day or two early. In my case it's just a convenience issue though, not a medical requirement. I'm sending all my +OPK vibes to you and you can send all your -OPK vibes to me, okay?
I was due for AF when I had my lap - it didn't arrive, but I ended up bleeding for about 9 days... and then I didn't until the next month, so I think it was convenient for the lap to be around the same time.... would have hated to bleed twice in a month....
n2l... maybe the OPK's aren't working....??? during FET I have to have blood tests cause they don't work well with me.... (although I have three boxes of the Seratec in my cupboard still....)
hi ladies, hope you're all doing well. had some sad family news, so been away for bit, i will try and catch up with where everyone is at.
ps - good news with blast transfer, best of luck. xx
myturn - goodluck for tomorrow (hope ive got the day right!).
n2l - like myturn, i have had one natural FET where the opk's didnt work either, had to do blood tests to determine ovulation. dont know why considering it had always worked for me before... just typical though that now ovulation seems to be on holiday. hmph.
hi everyone else.
afm - not much going on, just waiting for af as i will be having nk cell biopsy like n2l in next cycle. hopefully my cycle behaves itself so i can get things going again.
Well ladies, looks like I'm back in here again. CD1 for me today although I had my BT today just to confirm what I already new and the clinic never called me... all i can say is how rude. Now just hoping for a small miracle and hoping the FS will review my file and let me do back to back FET in the next 24hrs or we will miss our window for another month.
N2L, that sucks! Why do our bodies do the opposite to what we want them to do at important times like these?
Myturn, GL tomorrow Do you know how many embies you got?
Mrs Mac, I'm sorry hunni . Regardless of the result that's pretty rude of your clinic not to have called. I hope you can do a FET cycle straight away and GL with that lovely.
Hello to everyone else
I have been checking on you ladies, but to be honest, I'm really struggling with my failed cycle. Every day I wake up feeling like crap and can't even bring myself to make an appointment to my FS. I feel like I've fallen into a dark hole and can't seem to get out of it. I'm off belly a lot, I just can't seem to handle PA and other exciting baby news. This is my first BFN, and for the first time ever, I now know how much a failed cycle feels like. So to all of you ladies who have gotten a BFN in the past, I just want to give you the biggest hug ever. It's such a crappy, horrible feeling. Right now I'm really doubting my body/eggs, and I'm too scared to see my FS in case he mentions donor eggs. It's just not the path for me. I'm scared of what he'll say. Anyhoo, I am around and will be checking on you ladies. GL to you all in your cycles xoxox
Mrs Mac, sorry to hear that. I always had to call for the result when it was BFN. I can understand why they don't like giving bad news, but making us wait just prolongs our suffering. FX you can do back to back cycles like you want.
myturn, GL tomorrow. Did you get any news on the fertilisation today? Last time I had my lap the day I was due to O and bled for 2 weeks, followed by AF, so 3 weeks total. I was hoping that having it close to AF this time would make the bleeding much shorter, so it's good to hear that was your experience. Not that I deliberately picked a date near AF, it was just the first surgical slot available.
MissB, sorry to hear you're feeling that way. I have been there too many times, so feel free to PM me if you want someone to talk with someone one-on-one. I always set myself a time limit for dealing with the depression. It's normal to be depressed after a significant setback, but if you stay depressed for too long then you need to seek help. The limit I set myself was 1 month, but you may want to choose a different one if you have a better idea of what is normal for you. In the meantime, try to get up, get moving and do the things you don't feel motivated to do. It's amazing how big an improvement you can achieve just by making yourself do things. Also, I found having a plan for what to do next helped tremendously - I could be miserable and depressed for weeks and just calling the FS office to tee up the next cycle could turn it around because I had that potential positive outcome to focus on allowing me to put the previous negative outcome behind us.
Last edited by juniper76; July 18th, 2012 at 08:35 PM.
: posting same time as others, so updated
No i didn't get any news on fertilisation.... only a text message telling me the time of transfer. We get all the other info when we arrive tomorrow...
I have acupuncture at 7.15am! then transfer at 8.40am and acupuncture again at 9.30am..... busy morning!!!
mrs mac..... so sorry 
Andie
Do you know how many embies you got? 
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