Mrs Mac, sorry to hear that. I always had to call for the result when it was BFN. I can understand why they don't like giving bad news, but making us wait just prolongs our suffering. FX you can do back to back cycles like you want.
myturn, GL tomorrow. Did you get any news on the fertilisation today? Last time I had my lap the day I was due to O and bled for 2 weeks, followed by AF, so 3 weeks total. I was hoping that having it close to AF this time would make the bleeding much shorter, so it's good to hear that was your experience. Not that I deliberately picked a date near AF, it was just the first surgical slot available.
MissB, sorry to hear you're feeling that way. I have been there too many times, so feel free to PM me if you want someone to talk with someone one-on-one. I always set myself a time limit for dealing with the depression. It's normal to be depressed after a significant setback, but if you stay depressed for too long then you need to seek help. The limit I set myself was 1 month, but you may want to choose a different one if you have a better idea of what is normal for you. In the meantime, try to get up, get moving and do the things you don't feel motivated to do. It's amazing how big an improvement you can achieve just by making yourself do things. Also, I found having a plan for what to do next helped tremendously - I could be miserable and depressed for weeks and just calling the FS office to tee up the next cycle could turn it around because I had that potential positive outcome to focus on allowing me to put the previous negative outcome behind us.
Last edited by juniper76; July 18th, 2012 at 08:35 PM.
: posting same time as others, so updated
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