Motherhood here I come..... I got all teary reading how much trouble your DH went to and how he spoiled you..That's beautiful! check out my furbabies thread and introduce your 3!!I'd love to know about them.

Edie - welcome, you'll be made to feel welcome on any forum on this board. Sometimes folk will redirect, but browse, see what you can associate with, what you might be able to help someone with, or just learn from others' experience. It's the most comprehensive site i've found. I'm sorry to hear you've had to go through so many cycles...I'm starting on my 3rd...so I empathise. Good luck and happy surfing