TTL and Juniper thank you so much for your reply. TTL your so funny and I appreciate the long reply, there is nothing wrong with either of us its unexplained I'm using dh's frozen sperm
which was a good sample and thaws well. The only thing is probably my age (40) and my weight, i cant change places concerning ivf which also bugs me. The reason I'm worried is that i will go into early menopause as all my family has which means i have about 2 years left but i have decided if i cant fall pg by Christmas I'm walking away, the way I'm thinking is iui gives me 6 or 7 tries to fall pg where ivf i will only get one chance which freaks me out a bit. I'm so confused i wish a fairy would come down and say that's what you should do lol.
I have everything crossed you get your BFP i will keep checking in later today for your post, GOOD LUCK xxxx

Jonski How is everything? really hope your body is starting to cooperate and do the right thing and O for you, When is your next BT?