Well a massive hi to all you lovely ladies. I've been away for a couple of weeks with no Internet!!! Aarrgghhh it's so hard not being able to just jump on and have a read of where your all at, sounds like I've missed a lot.
Jo I will be doing the same cycle as what they've said to you, antagonist icis cycle.
We have an appointment with FS on 31st of this month.
I'm not sure what will happen there, I'm guessing he will say he wants me to lose more weight, although I have lost almost 9kg. And then even if he does say we can start, money is then the issue for us too. We are trying to sell our house which will then allow us to have the money without borrowing it or struggling to come up with it..
I completely understand the no one to talk to about the whole ivf topic. Most people just say it will be fine, so many people do it! And if I hear one more person tell me about "someone they know, knows someone who just fell pregnant right before doing ivf" I will lose my mind. It's not going to just happen for us. That's the hard bit.......
Ok that's my rave over, sorry ladies
Fingers crossed that 2013 is a lucky year for all of us.
Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen! Miss B - waiting for March cycle
Kerbear - taking a break Myturn - taking a break Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar kbudgie - waiting for AF Furbabies - CD7 Jo_white - CD9 Faye* - CD13 Juniper - CD14 Sarah4Kurt - CD20 Nic - CD20 Treenie86 - CD28 Me4ever - CD29 N2L - CD30 Emma - CD40
Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen! Miss B - waiting for March cycle
Kerbear - taking a break Myturn - taking a break Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar kbudgie - waiting for AF Furbabies - CD8 Jo_white - CD10 Faye* - CD14 Juniper - CD15 Sarah4Kurt - CD21 Nic - CD21 Treenie86 - CD29 Me4ever - CD30 N2L - CD31 Emma - CD41
Juniper - can you update me to CD1 today, please? Bit disappointed, thought we still had a chance, but no... So now back into FET, 2nd round. Am super nervous and quite excited. Have to see what we're going to do if this cycle doesn't work, as my DH is starting to get over all this and wants to see if there is anything else we could do, like PGD or something. I'm not too keen, as that will mean, loads of extra money?!, another fresh cycle :$ and all the other stresses that brings with it, and the needles :$. I think FET is already invasive enough and we still have 6 ice babies to use up... Anyway, first things first... Hope you girls are alright, have been quietly stalking! xx
me4ever - praying this FET works for you and you get your BFP xx
AFM - this cycle I had iui on Monday and cause thank goodness dp was home we dtd on
Monday night then done my 2nd iui on the Tuesday and dtd Tuesday night around ovulation time
so even though I'm not confident on clomid I'm praying non the less it's worked this time, a friend's father
of mine is in hospital who I have been visiting and am supposed to go this morning and visit again has just told me she has shingles should I worry?
Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen! Miss B - waiting for March cycle
Kerbear - taking a break Myturn - taking a break Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar kbudgie - waiting for AF Me4ever - CD1 Furbabies - CD9 Jo_white - CD11 Faye* - CD15 Juniper - CD16 Sarah4Kurt - CD22 Nic - CD22 Treenie86 - CD30 N2L - CD32 Emma - CD42
Thanks williamsmummy i did not go but i was there yesterday and the day before that and the day before that, but that was before she knew she had shingles. I've had chicken pox so hopefully i will be ok
still waiting for AF, 31 days seems like such a long time.... I know it isn't but it just feels that way. I need to get back to normal and I am not sure what to expect after MC - not really sure about anything as it was my first BFP too. I feel like I am letting DH down as I am wallowing and dont have the motivation to do laundry let alone dtd but I think I have held back for fear of conceiving again and my body not being ready and having another MC. We were advised to wait 1 cycle and my 28 days is up. Come on already dear AF, you could show up on time every month for the first 2 years of TCC :S now you can't show up as expected??!!
My honorary Aunty gave me some parsley today, apparantly some old wives tale if someone gives you parsley you will get pregnant, has anyone heard that before? If only things were so simple? Can't hurt to be given some parsley and good wishes though I guess xx
Rai - fx you will be ok, shingles is horrible.
me4ever - gl with the FET, we need to get someone lined up to be on the BFP section on the list in Feb xxxx
Rai - am keeping my fingers crossed this will be it for you this month as well! At least it seems like you've given it a good shot, with 2 x DTD and 2 x IUI!
Kbudgie - Big hugs for you... Hope you're feeling a bit better today... Fingers crossed AF will show up soon. Don't forget that after m/c your HSG needs to go down to 0 first and then it will be approx. a cycle length from that. It took my AF about 42 days to come back after mm/c. Did they do any blood tests to track HSG down? But hopefully it won't be long now!
Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen! Miss B - waiting for March cycle
Kerbear - taking a break Myturn - taking a break Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar kbudgie - CD1 Me4ever - CD2 Furbabies - CD10 Jo_white - CD12 Faye* - CD16 Juniper - CD17 Sarah4Kurt - CD23 Nic - CD23 Treenie86 - CD31 N2L - CD33 Emma - CD43
kbudgie, my d&c cycle was 35 days. I know the hcg was gone (or at least low enough to get a BFN on the HPT) in less than 2 weeks and I tracked my cycle (OPK & BBT) to detect O. Try to be a bit kinder to yourself. At one month post-d&c I was barely finding my way out of the deep depression I had fallen into and I struggled for months. It wasn't until the EDD passed that I really started to move on properly. Not everyone would need that long, but there's no shame in needing more time. We all handle the grief differently. I know it has been a long wait, but this cycle will end and you will move on to the next. FX the next one brings you more happiness.
FX for your FET. 
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