Sparkles, what that woman said really sucks and I bloody loath that holier than thou attitude of some mothers. As soon as they have a baby they think they invented the fricken world. I imagine you get a few of those types in your job - which I seem to recall is childcare / early education?

Try not to let one horror day cloud your judgement about your job too much, unless you regularly have thoughts of moving on etc. If you generally like your job, and are on good dollars you might as well stick with it.

What are DH's blood tests for? Our FS said something about me needing to have the standard infectious diseases testing, but she seems to have forgotten about it.

BG, it's funny how you know it probably hasn't happened, but when the time comes you still feel crap. I know when we were TTC naturally, even though most months DW had no signs of pregnancy (a few times she did) when AF came or the one line showed up on the HPT I felt pretty flat for a few hours.

Hopefully your DH can pull some big bucks in to compensate for the delay!