Just jumping on quickly to ditto all those thoughts about the incredible FRUSTRATION of being labelled 'unexplained'. Keen, what you said is so true.

Janee, stay strong I have much hope for you and Linda. But I know what you mean about going off the 'plan'. Looking back on it, I feel silly to have even considered that things might go the way we envisaged. But so many friends seem to be able to stick to the plan so easily.