Apparently, the hot flushes and bloating/discomfort are common and not necessarily OHSS - can anyone else confirm this?
I can confirm this for you! (and i kinda under responded if anything).

Ellie - yay for you. That's cool! Does he need your details/history first, or will he just do it as he goes? Will DH be on another phone in the house listening in (butting in!)? I hope it goes really well for you.