Thanks Rols
you have given me some food for thought, I go to most of my appts by myself, DH would come if I asked but I am sometimes a little too independant, i am now considering with this cycle to have him be more involved and come along as most people have said in this thread that their partner goes with them mostly. Perhaps it could be a good thing to lean on him a little more.
As for the cost medicare is great in NZ we would have gotten anything back like we do here and in the states it costs 10K US per cycle! So we are lucky but is it still alot of money 2k a month, especially when most of us have been shelling out 1K for IUI and other fert treatments over the last few months. But i am sure it is all worth it in the very end!
And I second that about EVERYONE being PG! OMG seriously! I must not be drinking the same water as the rest of the town!!