Im so hoping we get some graduates from here soon. I am keeping all crossed for you ladies. Chances for us have diminished yet again - hard to believe they can get less than 1%! Looking at possibility of an underlying cause that has not previously been examined - but unfortunately if that is the cause we are facing the guillotine for fertility. But we will hold out hope whilever there is some - although must admit is getting more and more difficult...

Jane, Megan - hang in there guys. Totally understand the 'preparation phase' - some of us just find it easier preparing for the worst rather than building up hope only to have it ripped out from under us, so yes, I agree with your approach. But each to their own. Plus I have found that different IVF cycles I have approached differently - although I do think it is not so much of a conscious decision - more just depending on where you are at the time, mentally I mean.

GOOD LUCK LADIES!! Lets get you all out of here!