thanks Jane. Unfortunately not really coping at all. And doesnt help when my close friend is giving me crap about not seeing me very much lately - this is one who has a 10 month old. I just wish didnt have to always explain our actions to others who dont understand. It sometimes really seems they dont care and just want us to "get over it"... yep, like its that easy...

yeah, so as you can see not my usual cheery hopeful self lately but trying.

Would be good if we could get some of you ladies graduated. That always lifts my spirits...