Loops - you sound like you've soooo got your s*** together girl!

Juniper - I'm sooooo sorry you've felt so bad and AF has mistreated you - I'll have words with her next time...although I hope that that's at least 9 months or so away!
You did however make me laugh ... at myself. I started to read the bit,

Afm, they screwed up our oven delivery date so it's coming tomorrow now. I know it doesn't really matter since it's not being installed until next Friday, but I'm still ****ed off!

and cos my brain is a bit one track... I was thinking 'bun in oven'....and I thought "oh, she's using the word 'installed' instead of 'transferred'...that's taking the metaphor a stage further....then the penny dropped!!! lol

hope you feel better soon mate