tell her that she hasn't been told because it is a private matter that can be incredibly emotional and you would rather tell people in hind sight
Neptune, your advice is spot on. I think I'll memorise that line!! Sorry that you have to deal with your in-laws' disappointment too (as if you don't have enough on your plate!!). My Mum & sis are a bit TOO excited about this first cycle I think so I hope they're not too disappointed if it doesn't work. I've already done the excited thing for the "first" clomid cycle and the "first" IUI etc. so I'm a bit over the excitement and just in it for the long haul!!
Smithy - your numbers look really great, good luck for EPU on Tuesday
Paula - thanks for your words, hope the news on your embies tomorrow is all good
Mels77 - bummer about not being able to do FET this cycle, noone warns you about all the "waiting" and months off do they? My idea of possible time line just keeps getting thrown out the window!!
Ruth08 - you must be going really crazy right about now ... all the best
shelbee, LNB, babytruj - Hi to you all

AFM - what ... only one day has passed since my last post? seems like an eon ... ??