Hi on tra_k,


Thanks for the hello.... I know what you mean about the family being all too excited and those nosey people. My family just don't get that it may not work. They were convinced the IUIs worked as I was soooooooooooo bloated. Then I had the lap 2 weeks ago and again they thought the bloat was a great sign.!!???The nurse at IVF Australia told me that although it is hard, just tell them you are taking a few months off TTC . (haven't tried that myself yet)

Neptune - my parents tell me they are "So" disappointed so I sympathise. I have become immune to their comments as they are coming from a good place, but they just don't understand and therefore say things the wrong way.

Best of luck to the both of you