W&D, sorry to hear you're having a bad time atm. I hope it's just a temporary, hormonal thing. What meds did you do this cycle? Does your clinic offer a counselling service? If so, maybe it would be worth talking to someone in case there's something more going on? I learned the hard way that early intervention is much better. The deeper, darker the hole, the harder it is to get out of... FX your IUI brings you a very good reason to be happy.