rang embryologist and first blastie was thawing ok and they were going to check again soon as apparently blasties have a habit of thawing strangely. what may seem ok may not be a little later on. im happy it seems fine and if it isnt they can pull another one out and thaw that. we leaving in about 15 mins. so nervous! you would think it gets easier, but third time round im even more nervous than the first....