Treenie, hi and welcome! GL with the lap. I had my second one last month. I hope you don't have to wait too long.

Vic, I've already told you our plans for BD before the FET. Last time we thawed 2 embryos and only 1 survived; this time we only have 1 embryo. Do you know if your embies were frozen using vitrification? If so, they have a very high thaw success rate. Unfortunately, our embie wasn't frozen with that method, so we're facing the lower thaw success rate... There's a whole lot of things to consider and if your initial reaction was to not BD then that's probably the right option for you.

Em Star, last time we transferred a 2-cell grade 2 and 4-cell grade 2- (grade 1 is best, grade 3 worst) and one of those became DD. So, she was either a slow-growing average quality or normal speed below average quality. I never expected that transfer to work.