Thanks for your messages girls - I had a chat (and a cry!) to DH last night about it - seems he is feeling as stressed as i am about it but didn't want to stress me out further by saying anything. I have to go in for a blood test next week (more BT to see if i'm Oing regularly - i've had them done before and all was good, I get the feeling he is just stalling us) so while i'm there i'll book in for December then no doubt he'll probably refer us onto someone else - i'm not sure?

Twomums - Sounds like everything is coming together for you guys now - my fingers are tightly crossed for you both!

Jane - goodluck with your scan on Friday

Nic - It's nice not worrying about temping isn't it? I feel a whole lot more relaxed when i don't - i only started temping again for my acupuncture.