thread: Looking for advice...

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Brisbane
    57

    Looking for advice...

    Hi!

    My DH & I have a daughter, and had no major problems conceiving her (about 4 months of trying) so I have been blissfully unaware of the issues so many couples have. We started trying for our second over a year ago, and have had 2 mc and several chemical pregnancies. We're getting really down about it now and don't really know what to do next .

    I temp & use ov tests, so know I usually ovulate on about day 21 of my cycle, but my cycle is only around 31 days long, so even if we conceive my period still comes & the 'pregnancy' is lost. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Should we go to our GP? Or OB? Or will they just tell us to keep trying? We're both a bit overweight at the moment too - will they just tell us to loose weight & come back later??

    If anyone has some advice/similar stories I'd love to hear from you!

  2. #2
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    Re: Looking for advice...

    Sorry to hear you are struggling to keep a pregnancy *hugs*
    I would start with a gp because you will need a referral to a OB/gynae or fertility specialist anyway.
    The Gp may be able to run some blood tests or might refer you onwards.
    Best of luck x

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Brisbane
    57

    Re: Looking for advice...

    Thanks for replying! I have a current referral for my ob (valid for 12mo) from when we had our last mc- do you think it's still worth seeing the GP first?

  4. #4
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    Re: Looking for advice...

    Yeah I'd go straight to OB then.
    I had 3miscarriages and when I got blood tests they discovered a clotting disorder. I needed to be on aspirin and clexane thru my pregnancy but it was worth it as I got a baby! Best of luck

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Brisbane
    57

    Re: Looking for advice...

    Thank you! Hopefully they'll find something that can be 'fixed'