Hi Ladies,
Thank you for your replies, all put a smile on my face! I am heading off to my SIL baby shower in 2 weeks and I really just don't want to be there! Her family are such sticky noses and I know they will ask!
RhiChiChi, thank you for the welcome
The Fyling Butter, I hope you don't mind but that is certainly one I am going to use I love it!
HOTI - You are so right! I don't know who people think they are and why they think they have the right!
I just hope I can get through that dreaded baby shower! The thought of it makes me ill!
Hi Miss B.
Your post wasn't there before those lines are awesome, I wil be sure to use them all
Thanks Ladies. I will let you know if I get to use any of them!
You have to look after your mental health too, and if you are going through a rough bit, sometimes it can be good to make the decision to not go to the Baby Shower or other event. Among family and friends, this has happened a few times. One of my mates told the other mate that it was a bit tough at the moment and so she wouldn't make it, but hoped they all had a good time. Other times, its easier to not give a reason or say you have another event to go to. It depends on your relationship with the person and how they will react (you don't want more drama if they are a drama queen). It's an option if you want it.
Hi HotI I totally agree hopefully I will have an excuse to leave early but OH THE DRAMA it would cause. She evn complains that she has put on weight since being pregnant! She drives me insane but coz she is my sister in law I kinda have to go other wise i'll be the bad one coz she is the golden child as she is pregnant! but ill keep u posted. I just feel awful but I dont want to be there.
I am so glad I found this site because I dont have a single person that understand ths feeling.
Thanks for being here and take care x
A friend of mine has suggested to me several times just to tell people we are thinking of joining a cult that doesn't allow children, I have not tried it yet but am seriously considering it for something different or to see the shocks on their faces... lol
You could always ask them if they would like you to call them ever time your BD'ing so at least they know your practicing.
Another one I like is "When the bank calls and says we can afford it"
or you could simply say "Oh are you offeringto be my surrogate".
snikkers1 I love all of those they are so many I have been trying to think of them and now I have a whole heap.
One that I like is " well actually we are both gay " I would think that would pretty much stop them in their tracks
Hello Ladies,
not sure if anyone is still out there.... well my SIL baby shower is next weekend and really I can't even think about it it makes me sick.. Anyone been in this situation before?
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