Oh babe, big hugs . It must be hard to swallow, it's just not bloody fair!!!! BTW, I just re read my initial post, yikes!! I wasn't very subtle was I I don't get on with my SIL the best, and she had her little one exactly 12 months after I had my first. Anyhoo, we had to do IVF to get my DS and now we're struggling to get DS a sibling. After her son was born she swore she wasn't going to have another one, one was more than enough. We fell out for 6 months earlier this year, and when mum told her we were trying again with IVF, she decided she wanted another baby NOW. She got pg but had a m/c (so did we around the same time) and now they are trying again. I don't know how I will cope when she gets pg, we are having lots of troubles TTC. It just sucks