Hi Girls
Well it was all bad news. I have been in hospital since monday nite and just got out tonight. I had severe abdo pains so went to the hospital, they ran tests did scans etc. some of them thought that it could still be a viable pregnancy and could have been a cyst causing the pains. Turned out it wasnt, it was an ectopic in my rite tube. So went into surgery yesterday where they were supposed to remove the tube. Find out they didnt remove it because both my tubes have adhesions on them. So this could be whats stopping us from falling pregnant. Thats the short story. Anyway just thought i would let you all no what happened. Thanks for all your support, it means alot.
Oh Chellie, I'm so sorry, that is devastating news. I know I can't offer sufficient words of comfort. I hope you are being well looked after at home and that you can get continued R&R at home. Look after yourself.
Oh Chellie im soo so soooooooo sorry... MASSIVE HUGS!! I know how you feel it hurts, you will be angry and sad but stay strong matey your baby is waiting to join you and im sure he or she will very soon.......
Take care and honestly if you need to talk just message me.. I lost my right tube and look where i am now.....
Thanx girls. its just soooo hard i really dont no how to feel. At times im ok, others i just cry and cry and cry, then theres times wen im so angry i just feel sick. My son is at his poppy's and i feel guilty i cant be there for him.
Well the doc has said he wants me to go bak in 3 months for another lap to clear the adhesions and then i have to wait for another 3 months before trying again. So looks like im out of TTC for 6 months. I probly wont be on for awhile, so good luck to everyone and i hope your dreams all come true soon.
xoxo
Thanx girls. its just soooo hard i really dont no how to feel. At times im ok, others i just cry and cry and cry, then theres times wen im so angry i just feel sick. My son is at his poppy's and i feel guilty i cant be there for him.
Well the doc has said he wants me to go bak in 3 months for another lap to clear the adhesions and then i have to wait for another 3 months before trying again. So looks like im out of TTC for 6 months. I probly wont be on for awhile, so good luck to everyone and i hope your dreams all come true soon.
xoxo
Chellie sorry for your loss my darling. I hope that you are resting up, and best wishes for your journeys ahead. x
AFM I had 2nd IUI today so buming it on the couch having a rest afternoon, am a little crampy but didn't spot at all this time round. Gee I hope this works.
Good luck with your second IUI murraycod - great idea about spending the rest of the day on the couch! My nurse always says I can return to usual duties afterwards - so I go back to the couch!
I'm 13dpiui today and thought AF was rearing her ugly head last night. Man, was I upset! So far this morning she hasn't arrived and I'm hoping she'll continue to stay away. I always seem to get AF on the exact day she's due, there's no hiding! I was so sure this would be our month as I had what I thought was implantation cramping earlier in the cycle. Maybe what my DH says is right - my ability to interpret my body is crap! He also has said we should wait before we think this cycle is all over - he is so wise...
Sal79 I'm sending your way, I hope that this is the month for you x
I have anoth couple days off work so I'm going crazy in the kitchen (DH gunna eat like a king tonight!)
Just trying to keep my mind buisy, I love the fact that we are giving ourselves the best chances possible at doing IUI but each part of the cycle you seem to have to wait for something!!!
I don't have my hopes too high this time round. Last month was a textbook cycle, scans were great, endometrium thick, IUI on day 14, AF day 28.......
This month my body didn't react to the puregon as well as it did last month which meant quite a few more needles and scans.
Eggies looked good, endometrium...ok... IUI on day 18. Extra long cycle which means more and more waiting. Have Pregnyl1500iu on friday and monday.
I am totally new to this site and hope I am in the right spot.
I am ttc at 44 (advanced maternal age i keep getting told) . This is our first try at IUI this month. I am gonal-f 150 at the moment and will be going for bt on friday to see what is happening.
Don't want to get my hopes up but really hope this works as time is flying by and will be our last chance before we are definatly too old. Luckily we have a beautiful dd who is 3 but would love for her to have a sibling.
Is there anyone who IUI works with first time??????? I know our chances are very slim but still can't help but hope.
Jilly welcome to BB, and yes you are in the right spot X
I was the same when I had my first IUI last month, searching for any hope of the IUI working first go! But now am on my second
It's different with everybody, but I really do hope that you get your BFP first try.
And if not, we are all here to support you through your journey no matter how short or long it is.
Great bunch of girls on this site,
Welcome and goodluck
Welcome and good luck Jilly. There is no reason why a first IUI won't be successful, and I hope yours will be. Did you conceive your daughter naturally? (if you don't mind my asking). All the best with everything - keep us updated.
AFM- AF came yesterday, right on schedule. I was very upset and downed a bottle of sparkling red to console myself. I'd have eaten a whole round of soft cheese too if I wasn't lactose intolerant!! Today I'm feeling pretty lousy (probably a combo of wine and sadness!), but have been on two walks in local national parks and have enjoyed the fresh air. We're gonna give our third and last IUI a go starting next week. Meanwhile we've made a time to speak to our FS about our options for IVF should we need it.
Sal79 - what a bummer that AF came I know every month we wait for the at least two weeks hoping and hoping and then bammm AF appears. Then we pick our selves up dust of the feelings of sadness and begin again knowing that one day AF won't come knocking.
Luckily for our first she was concieved naturally. But now our greatest hurdle is our age.
Murraycod- Thanks. I have all my fingers and toes crossd for you.
I am day 13 but had a bt this morning and still quite baseline. Unusally my AF went for 8 days this month. Usually it last for 5 - 6 days. I think it may have been cause they had a look to see if my tubes were ok (ouch by the way) and I seemed to have quite a lot of bleeding from that (is that too much info). Anyway I go to the fs on Monday for another bt and a scan. that there is follicle there.
I gather pregnly and gonal-f are the same - FSH. I am on 150ui gonal-f.
I was on 50iu of Puregon each evening from day 5 to day 16, (FSH). Had 2 eggies, 1 @ 20mm and 2@17mm.
Pregnyl 5000iu trigger shot to make spontaneous ovulate day 17, IUI day 18,then 1500iu preg fri and this comming mon for hormonal support X
I'm now 5DPIUI.
Iv'e been getting the slightest period like cramping on and off today, sometimes quite sharp.
I know I prob wldn't feel anything at this stage, my mind does wonderfull things to me!! Plus the Pregnyl gives pregnancy symptoms so I can't trust anything!!! I have sore boobies and am peeing like a champ!!!!!
I have heard about this forum but did not realy think I needed anything like this but I have been 8 times 2 cycles cancled and on the 6th one now icsi cycle on 450 preg. and my dr has put me on DHEA which i found some intresting info on the net about to help women over 35 Iam 39 I am on my 4th day into this cycle and hope I get more than 5 folicles this time It seems strange but the first 3 times are nightmares in relation to your emotions but time seems to move on and you seemed to get used to the next cycle of drugs but at the end I have heard that women go 7-9 times and get preg.
I have no little ones and I am that this works I do not know how many sick days I can take off work and explain myself that is the most stressfull thing I have no more sick days I can take and now beging to just take leave without pay.....
I am now blabbing I to do not know of the abrev.. so please be kind If I am unsure of what is going on and have to ask..
Welcome to BB Lucy,
Sounds like youre on the right rollercoaaster with all of us!!!
I pray that you get your sticky bub soon, and good luck with this cycle X
I too don't have any sickies left and on wednesday i took an annual leave day!! But I too been taking leave without pay!
Dunno what we gunna do when we get our sticky bubs and start to feel morning sickness!!
Anyways you will get plenty of support from all of us girls here, but I your stay will be a short one in this part of the forums XX
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I was so sure this would be our month as I had what I thought was implantation cramping earlier in the cycle. Maybe what my DH says is right - my ability to interpret my body is crap!
He also has said we should wait before we think this cycle is all over - he is so wise...
your way, I hope that this is the month for you x
. This is our first try at IUI this month. I am gonal-f 150 at the moment and will be going for bt on friday to see what is happening.
but really hope this works as time is flying by and will be our last chance before we are definatly too old. Luckily we have a beautiful dd who is 3 but would love for her to have a sibling.
Today I'm feeling pretty lousy (probably a combo of wine and sadness!), but have been on two walks in local national parks and have enjoyed the fresh air. We're gonna give our third and last IUI a go starting next week. Meanwhile we've made a time to speak to our FS about our options for IVF should we need it.
here.
that there is follicle there.
Not sure right spot for forum
and on wednesday i took an annual leave day!! But I too been taking leave without pay!
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