Thanks ladies,

I will get the ball rolling when the time is right for now we will still ttc a little longer but it looks like we will definately be doing ivf i had a big temp rise to 36.87 this morning 3 days before AF so got excited and poas and it was a BFN like i knew it would be dam those dud sperm that can't get into my eggs i want ****y eggs like sunbeam.

Mathewsmum-good luck today i hope your little embie thaws nicely.

Porsche-I am doing an antagonist cycle again it worked really well for me last time and was quick and easy i just have to watch my E2 as it got to over 16,000 but i had no signs of OHSS.
I refused to go on the pill with my first cycle as i said i have never been able to take it because it actually messes my cycles up with irregular bleeding and migraines and some even gave me a sort of morning sickness when i took it lol so they just went with the antagonist cycle.

Alice-I found it doesn't really matter what the results say you will still second guess yourself and blame something you did or didn't do thats what women do i know what happened to Abbi was genetic and out of our hands but i still blamed myself so getting a reason still didn't make me feel any better i just felt awful that it was DH and i that were the reason Abbi was sick it was our gene's and if the results come back with no reason there is always going to be the WHY!!!! question and that will never be answered because it is mother nature and we have no control over her so please don't dwell on the WHY!!! and WHAT IF'S because it doesn't help just try to be positive that you can get pregnant and focus on what is yet to come.

AFM-3 days until AF i have all my paperwork ready to ring the nurses and get this show on the road.